Stanbic Bank Ignites Discussion on Relationship Financial Boundaries
On the eve of Valentine’s Day, Stanbic Bank Ghana hosted an insightful X-Spaces discussion themed “My Money, Your Money, or Our Money?” The conversation explored the delicate balance of financial boundaries in relationships, offering practical advice on navigating love and money.
The discussion was led by Miriam Maku Amissah, Head of Client Experience at Stanbic Investment Management Services (SIMS), and Rev. Panin Adusa-Amankwa, General Overseer of Priestly Royal Chapel, with popular digital influencer Kaly Jay as host.
In many Ghanaian households, there’s a common belief that a man's income should be shared, while a woman’s earnings remain hers alone. This session examined the cultural roots, societal expectations, and evolving gender roles that shape this mindset, shedding light on how modern relationships are challenging or reinforcing these perspectives.
Miriam Amissah emphasized the importance of understanding a partner’s money mindset before marriage. She noted,
“People rarely depart from what they are used to. If you try to change someone’s financial habits after years of dating, it can lead to frustration and conflict. If I’ve not known you my entire life and suddenly meet you, and after two or three years of dating, you want to change my ideas about how money should be spent, it can become tough and frustrating. That’s when tensions rise.”
She encouraged couples to have open conversations about money early on to determine whether a partner values transparency or prefers financial independence.
“This will help you know whether your partner wants to be transparent or prefers to keep some information private.” She also cautioned against starting a marriage with debt, stating, “The wedding is a one-day event, but marriage is a long journey. It’s not wise to overspend on the wedding and face financial struggles in your marriage.”
On his part, Rev. Panin Adusa-Amankwa advised against joint accounts during dating, explaining that without formal commitment, financial entanglements can be risky. However, he noted that once married, joint accounts could promote cash flow management and financial transparency.
“It’s not advisable to have a joint account when dating because there’s no formal commitment at that stage. Once you commit to marriage, you become partners, and that’s when a joint account can help manage cash flow and encourage transparency in the relationship.”
The discussion provided participants with valuable insights into balancing love and money. Key takeaways included the importance of observing a partner’s financial habits during the dating phase, the need for open and honest conversations about money, and the role of transparency in building a strong financial foundation for marriage.
The conversation also highlighted the need to adapt traditional beliefs to modern realities, particularly as gender roles continue to evolve. By the end of the session, participants were better equipped to navigate financial dynamics in their own relationships.
Through initiatives like this, Stanbic Bank Ghana remains committed to empowering individuals and couples with the knowledge and tools to make informed financial decisions. As a leading financial institution, the bank continues to foster real-life conversations that promote financial well-being and long-term prosperity.